A fun night at MVK and a wonderful date with girlLi!

I did a blog post yesterday and mentioned some of the naughty fun that happened before I went to MVK (Metro Vancouver Kink). I went shopping and found a sexy pair of leather boots which I brought with me to wear last night. I have a pair of Fetish boots but they are very uncomfortable and hard to walk in. I had been looking for another pair for a while and yesterday found a sexy pair which fit me perfectly. I put up a picture of the boots today so you can see what they look like. I also was wearing a leather skirt also which I got from my friend, Katt. I get to cross that off my bucket list: #565 -Buy a pair of leather boots (to replace my fetish ones that are uncomfortable to wear) I looked through my bucket list and noticed that I should have crossed two items off my bucket list so I am going to today. I made homemade chocolate chip cookies last week. I hadn't done it in years and the family loved them. #391 -Make chocolate chip cookies from scratch again (havn't done this in years) I have also talked on the phone twice to girlLi when she was coming to pick me up for MVK. I can cross something else off my list because she was a blogger that I didn't know until recently. #261 -Talk to a blogger who I don't know on the phone Here are the details of my date with girlLi last night and my fun night at MVK: I wrote my blog post and then started to get ready for my fun evening out with girlLi and friends. I dyed my hair light blonde and made sure my outfit was packed and the toys were packed. I packed some rope, chain flogger, leather paddle, suede flogger and erotic feather. I wanted to surprise girlLi with giving her a birthday spanking and have a few different toys to chose from. I had a hot bath and shaved my pussy and got ready for my night out. Star Wars: A new Hope came on Spike TV and I watched it with Master while waiting for my date to arrive. I had picked out some beautiful orchids(I put up a picture today of them) for girlLi to surprise her for her birthday. I had also gotten her a card and Starbucks gift card. I wanted to make her night very special and memorable for her birthday. She arrived and I started to get butterflies in my tummy. She met my Daddy and he sent me on my way. I enjoyed the car ride to MVK. It is always fun to go to a bdsm event with friends. I really wanted to kiss girlLi or reach out and touch her but I was shy and very nervous. She looked beautiful and so sexy. We got to MVK early and I got a seat and was able to talk to girlLi for a bit before she went up to be a model for Professor Oni and his suspension demonstration. I really enjoyed the workshop. I've always wanted to try suspension but havn't been able to find someone to do that with. I found it fascinating and enjoyed Professor Oni demonstrating how he does suspension with different people. The play party started at 9 pm and I got dressed in the bathroom. I wore my red corset and fishnet stockings with the leather skirt and boots. I needed help with my red corset and girlLi helped me out. We were about to leave and we both looked at each other and reached out and kissed each other. I had been wanting to kiss her since she picked me up for the date and couldn't wait anymore. Mmm...she has the most soft and sensual lips and I really enjoy kissing her. We found a seat and started to watch some of the play which was already happening. My friend, Doc came over to us at one point and talked to us. Doc looked beautiful and I was glad to see her. I admit I wanted to give her a kiss but wasn't sure if that was ok so I didn't. She told me who she was sitting with and I admit that I got a bit worried. She told me she had met Mr. Spanks at MVK and was sitting with him and his wife. I knew the name right away from Fetlife. I have blocked and deleted 3 people from Fetlife and he is one of them. He contacted me about playing with him and his wife and I didn't think I was what he was looking for. He wanted me to play at his house with them and didn't seem to want to include my Daddy in any of it. There were several red flags for me and I found him very creepy. girlLi mentioned she also got a bit creeped out by him through his e-mails to her. I said "no" to Mr. Spanks and he continued to e-mail me to try to change my mind. Daddy looked at the e-mails and decided to block and delete him. I feel protective of Doc and a need to want to take care of her since we played at Rascal's together. I think of her as a good friend and wanted to look out for her. Doc seemed ok about him though but I still kept my eye on the table through the night. girlLi and I both watched Mr. Spanks giving Doc a spanking with his belt during some play. We both commented that the belt looked very wimpy. I know that I was not impressed with what I saw. Master Anakin is a belt expert. He's got a big black leather belt and he knows how to use it very well. He's got many years of experience. Doc seemed to enjoy the play though and had a big smile afterwords and was floating in subspace. They came over to us and Doc mentioned my belt fetish. I looked at Mr. Spanks and got creeped out by the look he gave me. I told him that I like my Daddy's belt. I do not have any interest in ever playing with him. girlLi and I did some touching and kissing and groping and making out. She is so soft and sexy and I couldn't keep my hands off of her. I buried my head in her tits and couldn't help myself with reaching out to grab them. Mmm...I was soooooo turned on by girlLi. She brought out some feelings that I have not felt in a very long time. I have played with other women and even made out with some but I felt a true connection with girlLi. We looked deep into each others eyes at one point and I felt chemistry between us and a connection. We both talked about our friendship and that is important to both of us. I can do casual play with a woman but it's not the same for me as when I play with a woman that I am friends with and am deeply attracted to. girlLi and I also have a lot in common. I feel like I can relate to her about many things. girlLi and I went up to Professor Oni at one point to check on a friend of hers. She was in the middle of a needle play scene and it was neat to see that being done. We were waiting for her friend to finish so we could start the birthday spanking scene but it was taking a while so we decided to go ahead on our own. We both went to the bathroom and then went out to the play area with our friend, Doc. I was excited that Doc was going to be playing with us too! :) I laid out the toys and then wanted to tie girlLi to the rack. I didn't have a clue what I was doing through. lol. I am used to being the one who is usually tied up. I had no idea how to tie knots or try to figure out how to do bondage with her. I had to get Doc to help me out. girlLi had her skirt off and was just wearing her cute panties which got pulled down right away. Doc and I warmed up her ass by giving her a hand spanking. At one point we were both spanking her. Doc was spanking one ass cheek and I was spanking the other! Fun times! *grins* Doc was a lot of fun to Top with. I enjoyed watching Doc spanking girlLi. Doc spanked girlLi with the chain flogger a bit. girlLi got a bit cheeky at times and got a few really hard ones from Doc. I had no idea that Doc could spank so hard! There were a few good bruises and marks from her spanks. I got my hand in the way at one point and accidently got it hit. I couldn't stop touching girlLi. I rubbed against her body and touched her all over. I used the leather paddle to give her some birthday spanks. At one point Mr. Spanks came over and interrupted the scene. I wasn't too impressed with that. You shouldn't talk to people during a scene and I got the feeling he might be trying to get in there with the birthday spanking. I was prepared to get involved if I had to because I didn't think girlLi would like that. I feel very protective when I am in my Top role. I have discovered a few new things about myself recently with Topping women. I want to make it a very soft and sensual experience for the bottom. I feel like I know how to give the bottom what they crave and need because I've been on the bottom so many times. I am also very aware of the person's responses to the play. I made sure to talk to girlLi a lot and make sure she was enjoying the spanking. She seemed to be really into it and asked for more. She sure is a spanking slut! *smiles* She didn't seem to get enough. I got the feeling she could have gone on for hours with the spanking. Doc left the scene at one time and I continued with Topping girlLi. I used the erotic feather on her body and I spanked her ass and gave a few play bites and rubbed her bottom and kissed it. I enjoyed watching her responses to what I was doing to her. I used the swede flogger to flog her very hard during several parts of the spanking. I really surprised myself with how hard I was flogging her. I had to step back and really get my arm into it. My arm is sore today from it! lol! She seemed to be really enjoying the flogging part. She asked for more and stuck her ass out to get more and more. I don't think that I am a Sadist because I don't get enjoyment out of hurting someone. The pleasure I get is knowing that the person I am Topping is enjoying the play and getting pleasure from it. I love the soft and sensual play but also giving the bottom what they are craving. I knew girlLi was craving a good beating on her ass and I tried very hard to give that to her. I was sweating by the time I was done flogging her. girlLi looked like she was in a deep subspace and feeling very floaty after. I am not happy unless I know that the bottom is happy. girlLi had a big smile and I could tell she was happy and in subspace. It was the first birthday spanking that I have ever given someone and something else I can cross off my bucket list: #416 -Give someone a birthday spanking Professor Oni and her friend came over to give her more birthday spanking with a wicked paddle after I was done. Holy smokes was her ass bruised and marked!! I don't remember the last time my ass marked like hers was. The bruises were purple and almost black. I rubbed her bruises and tried to make her feel good. I released her from the ropes and hugged her and tried to reassure her. I cleaned up the area and then got her some water and a chocolate chip cookie. We cuddled and I tried to provide aftercare for her. I really enjoyed seeing her glowing and happy. It gives me great pleasure when I know that the bottom is satisfied and happy and in subspace feeling good. I admit I was aching for a spanking myself after all the play and girlLi offered to maybe play and spank me but I felt that the night was about her and her birthday and I wanted her to enjoy the glow of subspace and enjoy the feeling. I also felt the aftercare was more important than me getting a spanking. I did tell her she has a rain check though to give me one sometime. I'd really love for her to spank me. *grins* I was VERY wet after our play. I was so extremely aroused and wet. My panties always seem to get soaked when I play with women. :) We decided to leave around midnight. We considered going out to the female strippers or going out dancing but it was getting a bit late and we were all hungry. Hopefully we can all go dancing sometime soon. I think that would be a lot of fun. I am so happy that I've found a special friend in girlLi. :) We went to McDonald's and girlLi treated me to a meal. We enjoyed some cuddles and she seemed to be very happy and glowing. I was so happy to know that she enjoyed her special birthday evening. I wanted to make it memorable for her. I really wanted to make her happy. I got dropped off and girlLi walked me to the door. Daddy was waiting up for me and I wanted to show girlLi his belt. She showed off her marks and bruises on her ass. She is quite the exhibitionist! I'm not sure if the neighbors saw but I didn't really care. I gave her a kiss goodbye and watched her drive away with a smile on my face. It's been a really long time since I went out on a date with a beautiful women who made me smile the way that girlLi did last night. It's great to feel a connection with another woman again and to know that I could make her birthday special for her. *smiles* girlLi....thank you for a really great evening and date. You were so much fun to play with and spank! You looked beautiful and I enjoyed watching you glowing and happy and enjoying your evening on our date. I hope I made your birthday very special for you. Thank you for your special friendship. You made me smile and feel happiness in my heart last night. You are a very special girl and I'm glad to be getting to know you. .... Daddy wanted to know all the details after girlLi left and I told him all about it while giving him a blowjob. I was so horny that I begged him for an orgasm which he was happy to give me. We fell asleep after 3 am. I was awake early this morning. I'm very tired but I've got the biggest smile on my face this morning. My force feels strong. :) May the force be with you all!! ~padme amidala