Jake has turned to the dark side

I normally don't like to take things public but this time I am hoping that it will maybe help with trying to make someone listen. I want Jake to go away. I feel like he is stalking me and it's a horrible and scary feeling. I'm had enough and I want Jake to go away and stop trying to harass me. He just doesn't seem to want to take "no" for an answer. He obviously doesn't handle me rejecting him too well. He won't leave me alone even though I've got him blocked and deleted from Fetlife. I was having a really good day today. I chatted with Doc on MSN and talked about Rascal's on Saturday. I packed my toy bag and dyed my hair. I also had a really nice long talk on the phone with my best bud, Shasta. I was feeling great. Then I checked the computer. I got an e-mail from a friend of mine on Fetlife. She had read the magazine article online at the Walrus Magazine which we had been published in this week. She was horrified to notice an anonymous comment on there from someone that was putting me down. I went to check it out and read it and knew immediately who wrote it. Jake (JKtheWolfe on Fetlife) made one mistake while writing that comment to the Walrus Magazine. He wrote "tho" in one part of it which is a trademark of his. He often used "tho" instead of though when talking. He is only one I know who makes that spelling mistake with that word. I know it in my gut that it's him who wrote it! This was the anonymous comment on the article: "She always gets what she wants even some discipline. She's the pants of the marriage for sure and crafts her requests of her Master to get the exact answers she wants. I wonder if he even knows. She a black widow type of woman who kills off those she love to have great sex with even tho she writes positively about it for days on. I remember some guy she played with named Jake who she raved about for days and then slighted him for whatver reason. Her journal is completely crafted to her needs and no one elses. Her blogs are pure narcisstic whims because she is so lonely during the day. Poor girl." I went onto Fetlife and found a quote from him right away where he uses tho. "Tho there are good reasons why alcohol isn't in CSPC - the club, and others can correct me here, couldn't exist if that were the case. Membership is past the 10K mark - so we are doing well. Yes - a club can do just fine without a liquor license - I'll bet even Sin in BC could do so. There is often too much dependency on the all hallowed liquor licenses. I haven't been to" I am not surprised that Jake would write that about me. He's been leaving very nasty comments on the blog also which I have rejected. I think that Jake forgets that we have Stat Counter for a reason. We know his IP address. It's extremely obvious who has been leaving those comments. We have not published them because they were extremely nasty. Jake has been a nightmare for me since I played with him. He hasn't left me alone. He won't give up. He reminds me of the Terminator actually. You try and try to stop him but he won't give up. His e-mails were out of control at one point and they were full of put downs and name calling. Master read them and I had to block/delete him on Fetlife. I guess Jake tried to do it through our blog but we rejected his nasty comments. Now he's gone to the magazine online to try to do it. I have no regrets about anyone that I have played with except for him. I wish I had never agreed to play with him. He did not respect my limits or boundaries when we played together. I said "no canes" which is a rule from Master Anakin. He disrespected my Master by not listening to him. He took canes out of his toy bag first when we played together. He went too fast and way too far. He called me a "pig" during one part of the play. I did enjoy the single tail whip a lot. There were some aspects that were nice about the play but there were some things which bothered me and my Master. It was our first time playing together and he broke the rules. He used a knife on me also which is also on my rules that I am not supposed to do. We spent the week after e-mailing back and forth. Jake was relentless with his e-mails. There was one day that I got a total of 8 e-mails from him. Lots and lots of mind fucks. He tried to get me to play with him at MVK but I was going with Shiro. We exchanged some e-mails after MVK and he wouldn't give up. He finally got me to give in and agree to give him another chance. I agreed that I would go for dinner with him and see how things went. I said "no expectations" and he agreed. Things were going fine until he started to change the rules. He had some huge expectations. He was talking about "scream girl" and how he planned to whip me. I kept telling him over and over "no expectations" but he wouldn't listen to me. The e-mails overwhelmed me. There was some really horrible put downs in the e-mails and he started to make fun of me. Master was very angry and at that point I was told to block and delete him and forbidden contact with him. He is the only person in the local bdsm community that I am forbidden from talking to or ever playing with. Then the nasty comments starting happening and now the comment on the Walrus. I wish Jake would leave me alone! He's starting to turn to the dark side in a very scary way. I think he's starting to show some very dark colors. Jake.. I asked you privately to leave me alone. Now I am asking you in public. Please leave me alone! Ps...the person who anonymously left that comment mentioned me having sex. I havn't had any lovers in a long time. I played with and dated many people (Daemon, LB, Jake, Shiro etc..) and I never slept with any of them. "kills off those she love to have great sex". Hmmm..it's kind of funny that all of the men I have ever slept with are all alive. I don't remember killing anyone. Who does he think I am? Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct? May the force be with you all!! ~padme amidala