Double date with girlLi and her Daddy tommorow night!

TGIF! It's been a shorter week with the Easter holiday on Monday but it has still felt like a long one. I'm really looking forward to the weekend and it sounds like it's going to be a good one! We originally had plans to go to Rascal's this weekend. We arranged sitting and had planned for a dinner down on Commercial Drive with my notty friend, girlLi and her Daddy. (I'm going to call him Dragon on the blog) Plans were up in the air a bit though and I wasn't sure about Rascal's working out. Anakin and girlLi's Daddy are both kind of shy and not very social. girlLi and her Daddy came up with an idea and she e-mailed it to me yesterday. I admit the e-mail surprised me a bit but I was glad that they made an offer to us. We would all skip Rascal's and have a more private party instead back at our place. We would still go out for sushi dinner but we would do it a local place instead. We would all come back to Anakin and I's place afterwords. We would have a Rascal's but not Rascal's type of evening. We plan to have a few drinks and enjoy a fun night together. We have all established some boundaries for the evening that makes everyone feel comfortable and yet still makes it fun for everyone. I have learned through my experiences through the years that it is better to communicate before getting together for any type of play. I much prefer knowing what is ok to do and not ok. It was good to talk about any pictures that might get taken or even about what details are ok to share on the blogs or even Fetlife. Believe it or not...I don't share everything on this blog. I leave out a lot of details about my adventures. It's good to leave some things also up to the reader's imagination. So I am not sure yet how much of Saturday night will make it onto the blog as far as details or even pictures are concerned. I'm pretty sure that I will be sharing some things though here at JTTDS so don't worry. lol! I like to go into any situation also with low expectations. It's much better to not have a lot of pressure or try to force things to happen. I wouldn't really consider Anakin and I to be swingers. We much prefer to be friends with the people we play with and to all be able to be comfortable together. I am hoping that this is won't be the only double date with girlLi and her Daddy. It would be nice to find another couple to play with that enjoys being open-minded and hopefully spanking play at least as Anakin and I are big spanko's. Dragon and girlLi both seem interested in spanking play and that always makes the possibilities for a really fun evening together. I'm pretty sure spanking toys will be used tommorow night and that girlLi and I both will be having red sore bottoms together. *big smiles* I've been really enjoying getting to know girlLi. We've slowly gotten to know each other and I am really glad about that. I consider her a close friend and I really enjoy her friendship in my life. I know that many people would assume that I am very experienced when it comes to women but I'm not. I am bisexual but I've only had two woman lovers and I knew both of them for years before we slept together. I've made out and dirty danced with a ton of women but I think it's much different to be intimate with them. I much prefer a slower pace when it comes to being intimate with a woman. I have always found that having a friendship is the key. My best friends have been the best lovers for me. nikki and I had been close friends for 6 years when we got intimate together. amber (Master R's other slave) and I knew each other also for many years before we got intimate. Even several of my best male lovers were also my best friends like Master Anakin was with me for 7 years before we slept together. I will be honest that I am not sure I want to go to the Dirty Girls party again. I did enjoy going that night but it was too strange for me to meet women that night to get intimate with that were strangers to me. I also am not really into one night stands at all. They make me feel crummy. I would much prefer to be intimate with people who I will hear from again and are friends with me. I have learned a lot through the years and I know a lot more of what I am looking for in my poly relationships with others and that now includes having a friendship with the people I play with. Master and I have discussed a few possibilities for future play parties at our home. We are not interested in having any big parties but we would consider having a few friends over to play and get together. We have always wanted to have a real Star Wars spanking party. We had an online one but it isn't the same as a real one. :) I am hoping that I will be crossing a few things off my bucket list tommorow night. I am going to probably cross off "have a foursome" as it feels like a foursome with having another couple over to play with. We are not going to be doing any partner swapping and I'm glad to have that pressure off because it's not something that Anakin and I have much experience with. Also, girlLi and I are just getting to know each other and our Daddies. This will be my first meeting with her Daddy. She only met Master briefly when she picked me up from MVK. I am really excited about tommorow night! I have to laugh because Master told me that I am NOT allowed any Russian Vodka tommorow night. LOL!! Everyone knows what happens when I drink vodka. Last time when Shiro came over for a threesome I wound up throwing up most of the night and it got ruined. I will be sticking to wine tommorow night. :) I hope everyone has a great weekend!! May the force be with you all!! ~padme amidala