A Friday meme

TGIF!! I'm so glad it's almost the weekend. I feel like there is a lot that I can blog about right now. I'm still trying to sort out some of my feelings though. I saw this meme on another blog and thought this would make a nice and easy post for today. Hopefully I will be able to process some of my feelings and write a blog post in the next few days about some of the things that have been happening in my life the last few days. So here goes: So, what are you? I am a 36 year old wife and mother of two kids. I am a house slave who takes care of my family and tries very hard to keep my Master happy. What are you favorite three implements? 1. Leather belt!! I have a belt fetish 2. Razor Strop 3. Leather paddle Alfresco/Safely Inside? It depends on my mood. Sometimes I like alfresco and sometimes I prefer to play and be inside. Depends on the weather and my kind of mood and sometimes if I have been drinking. I admit to a few topless shows while under the influence. LOL. Whats your favorite sound? The sound of a belt coming out of pant loops. Yum! :) Any place in the world you could be right now...where would it be? I would LOVE to be in Las Vegas right now! Under a palm tree, sipping on a margarita and checking out the boys at the pool!! Ahhhh...I wish. Maybe one day. :) Are you collared? Yes, I am. I am collared to Master Anakin. Who inspires you in your kink? My best friend, Shasta inspires me a lot. I was telling her on the phone today that I was able to get out in the local BDSM community in Vancouver because of her. She inspired me to take the chance because she had done it herself and she encouraged me to. She's inspired me in many ways and I am so glad for our friendship! She is one of my closest and dearest friends. What means the most to you? Family and friends. I love Master Anakin and our family is sooo important to me. I love our kids and am so glad to be a mother and wife. My friends are also important to me. So is my submission. It means a lot to me to be able to submit and have the kind of lifestyle that both Master and I want. What quality do you absolutely need in your friends? Being there for the bad times as well as the good. True friends are there whether it's good times or your having rough times. I've had many people take off on me when the times got tough. Those are not true friends in my opinion. Public/Private play? Both are nice. It depends on my mood and where I am at. Obviously I do public play if I am at Rascal's or somewhere where I can do public play. Otherwise, I'm content to do it in private at home. Would you say you are shy or a social butterfly? I can be very shy when I first meet someone or I am in a big group. I can also be a social butterfly sometimes too. I think it's a mixture. One thing most people are shocked to learn about you...they would never suspect! I was a real prude once and that you couldn't even crack a sex joke around me. I used to be very uncomfortable even talking about sex when I was in my first marriage and in my early 20's. I've obviously changed a lot through the years. Now I discuss my sex life on my blog and very openly. What fascinates you most about spanking and BDSM? The people who are into it. It's fascinating sometimes to find out that someone who you would never suspect is into spanking or into BDSM. It can sometimes be the person you least expect like a friend or a neighbor or family member. Role play/Real Life or Stress Relief spankings? Any kind of spankings is good with me! *smiles* I like all kinds. :) Hard Spanking or sensual? Sometimes I need a hard spanking and other times it would be nice if it were more sensual. Depends on the person and the mood and whether it's for punishment or fun or foreplay. Ever done corner time? And does it work for you? I've done corner time a lot and have many pictures to prove it. :) I enjoy it. I like the humiliation aspect of it. Having to show my red bottom to Master (or whoever is doing it for me) and stand in the corner like a bad girl. Safe word or no safe word? I have a safe word that I use with Master Anakin or anyone that I play with. I think it's important to play with a safe word although I would never use it unless it was necessary. I have bad arthritis sometimes and need to be able to safe word if I was having a problem or such. What are you going to do now? Publish this blog post and then enjoy some lunch and watch Y&R before heading down to the school and picking up my son. It's been a nice Friday and hopefully a good weekend ahead! ..... May the force be with you all! Have a great weekend! ~padme amidala