Tuesday, January 26, 2010

A is my new Dominant

This is probably not a big surprise to some people, especially if they are on Fetlife. I did a status change on there to reflect a new and exciting change in my life. A has become my new Dominant. We've been getting to know each other and we played together at Rascal's and when he came for a visit. We have decided to go down a more D/s type of path together and see where it leads.

I admit that I'm very nervous about this. It's been a while since I served two Doms before. Every person is different and A is young and learning. It seems to be going well so far. A seems to understand my needs and also how he will fit into my life. I already am in a TPE relationship with Anakin. It's going to be a bit of a juggling act with trying to serve A as well as be a good slave to Master Anakin. We have an agreement that he will be my Dom while together and I will have a few simple rules to follow. We are still sorting out what those will be though.

There is a lot of communication going on right now. Having a poly relationship is very challenging. You try to make all the partners happy and make sure that everyone is on the same page. I'm really glad that Master Anakin has been so supportive. He's hoping to get to know A better and I'm sure he could Mentor him about bdsm and Dominance. I'm really curious where this new road will lead. It's an exciting new chapter in my life and I'm sure I'll have plenty to blog about with how things go with A being my new Dominant. Master Anakin is my Owner and Master. A will be a Dominant and be in control when we are together. I've served two Doms before and it did work out for many years. It will be interesting to see how it all goes...

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I had a morning quickie with Master Anakin which was a great way to start the day! He gave me permission to use my Hitachi and that felt wonderful to have a big orgasm today. My ass was very sore yesterday but the bruises and soreness are starting to fade from the play at Rascal's. I think I might need another spanking soon! *smiles* :)

May the force be with you all!!

~padme amidala

4 comments:

Anakin said...

My padme,
With good communication, this dance has worked well in the past, and is always exciting and interesting. Let the dynamic unfold and let's see what it holds.

~Anakin

spirited one said...

I'm so glad things are working out so far. Good luck. Being that Asha and I are also open to a poly relationship and have two people in the US who may become a big part of our lives when we move back... it'll be interesting for me to see how things play out with you and A.

I know poly relationships can work... but I also know they are a lot more work than monogamous relationships. It is a juggling act as you say. I'm still trying to get my head around the possibility of having two Doms in my life.

*hugs*

spirited

mouse said...

I'm happy for you all. it's kinda exciting.

hugs,
mouse

padme amidala said...

Master,
i love you! :) XOXO
Love padme

Thank you for your comments, mouse and spirited one. Great to hear from you both. It is a very exciting time in my life. I'm very happy with the new changes. :)
Hugs to you both,
padme