I got an e-mail today from my good friend, Obi-Wan who had some really great questions about my poly dynamic with A and Master Anakin and I. I serve two Masters and obey they both. It's been an interesting journey for me this year with A coming into my world. He has joined Master Anakin and I on our journey.
Question: "Is there a kind of "chain of command" when it comes to your Masters? Like, does Master Anakin have veto if A and Him disagree with a particular course of action regarding you? "
Answer: my Master Anakin is my Owner and he has final say when it comes to me. This was spelled out in my contract with A and was important to keep clear when it came to building my M/s dynamic with A. Master Anakin will always have more say than any other of my poly partners because he is my husband as well as my Master. He is my Owner and owns my ass. Anyone who becomes involved with me knows that right off the bat.
He is the father of my children and we have our life together. He has known me a long time and we share a very powerful dynamic which is between Owner and property. A is my Master but not my Owner. He can not make decisions on things like body modifications or tattoos or even anal sex. There were a few limits which were made clear when our contract was written up. I plan to share that contract very soon in a separate blog post.
Question: Is there any Jealousy?
Answer: I admit there have been moments that I have been a bit jealous. It was hard for me to hear about A making out with those girls at Sin City on his birthday weekend and felt some jealousy. I'm trying to be better about it as I know that we are poly and he's going to want to add more partners in our relationship at some point.
It's all a delicate dance and there is always a bit of jealousy when dealing with the emotions of poly. I have been reluctant to play with anyone else or add anymore partners though for myself. I feel like I have enough to deal with in serving two Masters. I've had a lot of offers lately but that isn't a path that I want to follow right now. Maybe one day I'll want to add more people into our dynamic but for now I'm busy enough trying to juggle both Masters and keeping them both happy.
A and Master Anakin have not been too jealous with one another. I think they both might get a bit jealous sometimes if I get to spend more time with one partner over the other. You might want to ask them that question about jealousy. I'd be curious to hear what they would both say.
Question: "Will there ever be a day when you and your two Masters all play together? I think it would be incredible to read about Master Darth taking the young Master A under his wing and teaching him the ways of the Dark Side. Him teaching A the quickest and ouchiest ways to get your attention! ;) lol. I could really imagine how hot a fantasy that must be for you, being used roughly by both your Masters at once. Serving them, like the good lil girl you are! "
Answer: I admit that this is a huge fantasy of mine. I've had a threesome with two Masters before and it was damn HOT!! Master Anakin and Master R and I had a few threesomes together. They were some of the hottest experiences of my life.
We are hoping to have A over for dinner sometime soon and perhaps I will get the chance to serve both of my lovers. Master Anakin has offered to mentor A and help him on his journey to the darkside. I know he'd be happy to take him under his wing and teach him the ways of the darkside. I can imagine them both being very mean to me if they ever get together though. I think it could be a pretty intense night with playing with them both.
We can all have dinner together which I will cook and serve them. The guys want to watch a Star Wars movie and bond over a few beers. Maybe the darkside might get brought up and some play might happen. It would make an interesting night. I don't like to make too many expectations though so it avoids any disappointment. We'll have to see what happens...
It's a VERY hot fantasy though!! I hope one day I might get the chance to live that fantasy of a threesome with my two lovers. I would love to serve them both sexually at the same time. *smiles*
Question: "So I guess what I'm asking is because Master Anakin/Darth came first, and is your husband, does he get final say? Or is it an equal 50/50 and they both have to agree?"
Answer: Master Anakin is my Owner and he will always have final say when it comes to me. I belong to him. A knew that going into our dynamic that he would be second in command. He seems fine with that arrangement. Maybe at some point he'll have his own slave and our dynamic might change again.
The poly arrangement has been challenging at times. On Friday there was a conflict between the two men. A wanted me to go for my walk (he's trying to control more aspects of my life) but I ran out of time and then was spending time with Master Anakin who wanted me to spend a night relaxing with him. Master Anakin got a bit irritated with A for trying to step on his toes and there was some conflict. This isn't an easy arrangement. There has had been a lot of communicating and some struggles and bumps along the road. There are moments which make me wonder if I was crazy for having a second Master to serve who is half my age.
I am calling A Master but yet he's still young and learning. Maybe we jumped into the M/s too early. I guess time will tell. I just wonder if the M/s will be able to work out sometimes. Sometimes I have my doubts. Things are running smoother in my relationship with A though but it's also had a lot of pressure too with this new change in our relationship. I am trying to serve two Masters and this is not an easy job. Hopefully this special dynamic will be able to continue for a long time and there is lots more on this journey to learn and experience.
I love both of my men a lot and am happy and proud to be serving two Masters. It's kept me on my toes with having them both kicking my ass and keeping me in line. It's also very arousing too and inspired a few orgasms!
Thank you for the great questions Obi-Wan. If anyone has any other questions for me (on my poly dynamic or anything else) please feel free to contact me at shyanne.blog@gmail.com.
We have a new poll up on our sidebar asking me if I need a spanking. What do you think? Should both of my lovers spank me?
May the force be with you all!!
~padme amidala
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6 comments:
Cool questions to consider, and very interesting and informative answers from you, My slave.
~Anakin
We have an interesting dynamic and I think a lot of people are curious about us. It has been challenging and rewarding, my slave. Hopefully all three of us can get together soon to play. I look forward to that.
love you
-A
Thank you for being so thourough with your answers, little one! I very much enjoy learning about new aspects to the world of D/s and BDSM!
BTW the new lexan cane is in the works, i have decided to use a thin red rope with a "turks head knot" to create the handle (if i'm able, lol) and i have to pick up some polish from a moter bike shop to get it all shined up and remove the cloudy look to the lexan. But soon! I voted in your poll, padme needs the cane! ;)
Also, its wonderful to read comments by Master Vader, and Master A, and I enjoy following Master Vader on twitter! Its pretty fun knowing when little padme has been a brat and can expect to be taught to be the good girl she can.
Thank you all so much, and I will continue to read and follow with great interest! Perhaps, in the future, if it works out, I'd be able to make my way to BC one of these days and enjoy a glass of merlot! I'm always on the lookout for new reds!!
Your friend
Obi-Wan
Darth Vader - “When I left you, I was but the learner, now I am the master.”
Obi-Wan - “Only a master of evil, Darth.”
Wow... I was actually wondering the same thing. I honestly don't know if I could do it. As you know Asha and I are open to a poly relationship. Well in the last several months we've been building a relationship with a girl who goes by the name AshasKitten. Well she is now in another relationship with another Dom and there's talk that the four of us will be together. It's not set in stone, but it got me wondering whether I could possibly survive with two dominants in the house.
I wouldn't have to submit to him, but still... the dynamic will still be there. It just feels very complicated to me. I find it amazing, though, that you can serve two Masters. I mean... wow... I don't think I could do it. You three truly have my respect for how well you seem to be making this work. I know it can't be an easy thing and it would take a lot of compromise and dedication.
*hugs*
spirited
This is really interesting to me. I didn't actually know about poly before I stumbled across your site a few years back, and have been interested ever since. (Of course, I kinda have to have a first partner before I can go looking for a second.) :(
I also have a question for you. What is it like having a dom so much younger than you? And being in a relationship with an age difference in general?
As always, your post really enlightened me. I really appreciate you posting stuff like this. It's really helped me get a better understanding of poly.
SL13
Enjoyed reading your answers. One thing I was curious about is if Anakin has ever had a second slave or is the poly more something that Padme only does?
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