Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Life lessons

I am going out with my mom in a bit so I don't have much time to write a blog post. I was on Fetlife this morning and answered a question on there so I wanted to re-post it on my blog. I am on a group there that is 36-45 The Lost Generation. I really like all their stuff on that group and can relate to a lot of it. They asked about life lessons and what have you learned the hard way. These were a few of the ones that I came up with about my life lessons:

I have learned:

~You can love more than one person

~Fate is only what we make

~Every day is a gift. Treasure it because you never know if today is your last day

~friends will come and go but only a few will stay in your life forever and be true friends

~life will knock you to the ground. You need to pick yourself up again and keep moving forward

~we are all dying a little each day. No one can escape death. No one usually wants to talk about it but it's a reality that you face

~people will talk the talk but very few actually walk the walk

~find your own happiness. No one can truly make you feel good about yourself except for you

~tell those people around you how you feel about them because you may lose out on the chance and you have to live with the regret of knowing you never did (this lesson can to me after my Dad died)

~everyone makes mistakes. Learn to forgive as holding anger inside is harmful and destructive

~family is forever. Friends will come and go but family is forever.

~Don't work or live with family members (other than your immediate family). I've seen this end badly so many times.

~sometimes you need to lose yourself in order to find yourself

~live your dreams. As Yoda says "Do or do not. There is no try"

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Those were just a few that I could think of but I'm sure there is many more. What are your life lessons? Please leave us a comment and let us know. I'm curious to hear other people's responses to this question.

May the force be with you all!

~padme amidala

5 comments:

mthc said...

Excellent post. I'm living a lot of it right now. Everything in it is absolutely true! Enjoy your mom today. Hugs..

Anakin said...

My padme,
What a wonderful, thought provoking post! I'm (just barely) in that age category. You are not only beautiful but wise. I'll have to think about My life lessons. Your ones are all great ones!

~ Appreciate the small, beautiful moments that happen each day; these are the best parts of life.
~ Be present and in the moment where ever you are; it's the only way to feel truly alive.
~ Life can be absurdly unfair, and incredibly lucky; accept both inevitabilities.
~ Knowledge is self-empowerment.

...I'm sure there's many more.

~Anakin

blueeyedtawni said...

truthful words....
it is very true . you can love more then one.:)
and life is what you make of it.
whether it be positive or negative you can turn either into a gift to be remembered .
hugs!!!

padme amidala said...

mthc,
Thanks for dropping by my blog and commenting! Great to hear from you, my friend. How are you? I'm glad you enjoyed the post. *hugs*

blueyedtawni,
Thank you for your comment. :D What you say is very true. Glad you enjoyed the post.

padme amidala said...

Master Anakin,
i enjoyed reading your life lessons. It's good that we remember them. We've learned a lot of life lessons together. :D
love you!
XOXO
padme