 Today is Day 4 of having an #adventblog. I plan to blog daily until Christmas. Hopefully this will inspire a lot more blog posts. I have been talking about belt spanking on Twitter today and it inspired a blog post today. Check out my tweets: https://twitter.com/#!/padmeamidala
We have put up many belt spanking pictures on JTTDS. One of our most popular is the "bottom and belt" picture that I am putting up today. It was voted most popular HNT picture in 2009. I have also made it pretty clear that one of my biggest fetishes is belt spanking. You can spank me with any toy but the belt is my personal favorite. I am not sure I've talked very much about where this fetish came from. I've decided to talk about it in my post today.
I am not sure when I got my first childhood belt spanking but it was one of my earliest memories. My Dad was very strict and controlling. It was very common to get the belt growing up. I knew several friends who talked about getting it when I was growing up in the 70's and 80's. Childhood spanking is now considered taboo and most people would probably be called into social services now for using a belt on their child. My Dad used his belt just like his Dad did though. That's how a lot of kids were punished growing up.
I can remember my Dad taking off his belt and laying it on the kitchen table to make me and my siblings eat all of our dinner. It was very clear that he was the Boss in our house. Getting the belt was not fun at all. I feared it and would feel a big sense of dread when I knew I was getting a belt strapping for punishment. We got it until we were teenagers and then my Dad found other ways to punish us.
I was cleaning out my Dad's room one day and found his belt. I was about 15 years old. I started to have fantasies about it which was very troubling to me. I masturbated thinking about getting the belt. I really believed that something was wrong with me for thinking that way though. There was no internet or information out there about spankings. I was deeply ashamed. My desires grew after going for a visit to England and hearing stories about corporal punishment from my cousins. They got the strap at their school. The desire grew in me.
I got my first adult spanking from a high school boyfriend at 16 years old. I coaxed him into giving me a paddling with the ping pong paddle. He fondled me to my first orgasm from a guy after paddling my ass with the ping pong paddle. I went home floating on air. I checked out the marks on my ass in the bathroom mirror. I thought I had found a partner who understood me and my desires but I was wrong.
I phoned him up and didn't expect him to be so upset about it. He was horrified by what happened. He told me that it could never happen again. This made me feel even more ashamed for my desire to be spanked. I really thought something was wrong with me. I had no one to talk to. I covered up my feelings for years. I didn't think anyone would understand.
I was shopping one day with Anakin and the desire came back again. We were best friends and he was shopping for new clothes. He wanted a new belt and we went into the section at the store. I couldn't handle it. I literally took off as fast as I could which troubled him. I didn't have the guts to tell him that I couldn't be around belts. I was afraid he would see right through me and my desires for belt spanking.
The first spanking I got from Anakin was a cropping. He used a crop on me which was purchased downtown Vancouver. It took me a long time to finally be able to tell him about my fetish for belts. I discovered the internet in June 1997 which changed everything. I found D/s, adult spanking, and poly as well as other stuff. I realized that I was not alone in my desires. I'll admit that I was shocked that other people out there had a fetish for belts.
I have a very big belt fetish. I notice a belt on a man before I notice anything else. I fantasize about it often and many masturbation fantasies revolve around it. You can spank me with any toy but a belt will get my attention the fastest and make me very wet and aroused.
Anakin has owned many different belts. My personal favorite is a nice thick black leather belt. Perhaps this is because my Dad used one like that on me for years. My favorite spanking stories to read is about belt spanking. The other toys just don't do it for me like a good hard belting. I had one poly partner who knew about my belt fetish yet never used his belt on me at all. He liked to flog me. It was ok but not the same for me.
I've had other poly partners who went out to buy a new belt just because they knew I was so into it. I love everything about it. The sound of it coming out of the loops. Seeing it folded while being lectured. The jingle of it in His hand. Having it give me a very hard strapping. It is very rare for me to play with Anakin and not have the belt be a part of it. He knows my fetish for it and loves to tease me with it often. He will take it off and put it on the nightstand so I can see it while cleaning or even just to remind me of my place. I love everything about His belt.
I am very glad that there is the internet now. I'm able to connect with others who share my love of the belt. I really did believe for many years something was wrong for me for liking it so much. I am also lucky to be with a partner who understands my fetish for belt spanking and is able to fill that need in me.
I think I'd have a hard time dating anyone at this point who didn't have a belt or want to use theirs on me. It is one of my biggest fetishes and turns me on like nothing else. Anakin has used his belt on me in several types of ways. I've had my hand strapped. He's strapped my pussy to an orgasm. He has strapped my nipples and tits. Of course my ass has had LOTS of attention from his belt. I love belt spanking!! :)
May the force be with you all!!
~padme amidala
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5 comments:
My padme,
So many stories of you and I involve My belt in some way. It's good to look back an see where our fetishes and desires may stem from. We are not passing judgement on the past, but looking backwards and valiantly trying to objectively see that who we are today may have been influenced by this or that in our past; the whole nature vs. nurture debate of course comes into play.
~Anakin
I love the belt too and the sound sliding through the loops. :)
This is SUCH a hot post. Thank you for writing something so wonderful. I'm so glad you're blogging every day.
I don't think I've commented on your blog before although I have popped by more than a few times.
I agree with the commenter above who says this was a hot post. I love the belt. I was never hit with it as a child and it was years after being in the scene that I first played with one, but for some reason, I've always had a huge fascination with it. I can't get enough of it.
Sounds are a huge thing for me... and that jingle... {{shiver}}.
Wonderful post, Padme! As you know, I'm a huge fan of the belt too. As a dominant/top I've often thought about why I like it so much. I suppose for me it's a combination of things.
One is that I'm a realism fetishist, in the sense that if I think a spanking or whipping could have actually happened in a punishment context, I'm more likely to be turned on by it. That's why I haven't ever been a big fan of riding crops and those bdsm "play" floggers in videos. It's unlikely anyone would have used those for actual punishment in a non-sexual context.
But they are very likely to have used the belt or had the belt used on them. It's such a common implement of corporal punishment that the realism is de facto.
But of course there are other implements that are common, but I don't obsess over them so much, like the paddle, or hand-spanking, or switches. All those are great things, don't get me wrong, but they're not as special to me as the belt.
So another thing about the belt is the kind of pain or attributes of pain that I perceive it causes in whomever receives it. In my mind, I imagine it to be a great balance of severe sting and heavy 'thud' (if you have a heavy enough leather belt). I think of it as an implement that can be used for quite long spankings as well. And I love giving and seeing given long spankings.
But I think probably also a powerful motivation for me liking the belt is an emotionally edgy one. I think it's the domestic discipline angle. My sexuality, that of a spanko, formed in early elementary school. There and among my friends' families I witnessed a fair share of corporal punishment and was told stories about punishments. Of course often the belt was used.
So as a teen, I was constantly seeking to talk to a girl about spankings she may have received at home. Hearing about it from her personally, made it especially intensely erotic. I had to hold myself back from asking for too much detail. I always wanted to know the number of 'licks', what position she was in, did she cry etc.
So now as a dominant with his own submissive, I get to see how grown women actually react to being spanked with that perfect spanking implement - the belt. It's just amazing.
Thanks again,
Quai
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